Dating your spouse separated values from reality dating tv shows
We think we need certainty and we crave clarity in order to get certainty, somehow and from somewhere.
We can’t move forward without knowing where we’re headed, right?
When a relationship is clearly in a broken place, but you’re not quite ready to give up on it and walk away, a separation provides a compassionate "pause button" that can provide you both with a gold mine of valuable information.
It was a long, nine-hour drive that we’d never driven before.
With still three hours left in the trip, it became dark and a little foggy.
My recommendation is to plan for 60-90 days apart before any final decisions are made.
If it’s not possible to be apart physically, establish some ground rules so there still feels like some emotional separation under the same roof.
There are some real deal-breakers in their relationship that make it unworkable at the moment, but neither are ready to walk away.