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Even the women that state they chose partners who were opposite of their dad are basing their decisions on the relationship (or non-relationship) with dad—a choice to go opposite is still a choice based on dad. Topics will explore how different, early attachment patterns (including no attachment) can affect our current relationship choices and how we respond in relationships. I made a mistake that was not obvious to me until I was in my forties.
So, does this mean that today Rachel is married to a lumberjack who chases her around in restaurants? I always had a fierce love for my dad, but I saw him (wrongly) as weak for putting up with my borderline mom.
So yeah, bottom-line is to let go and forgive yourself. Hi Jennifer, From my personal experience this post is truly the case with so many relationships.
;) Thank you for telling me to forgive myself for the disastrous relationships I put myself in, because I knew nothing else. Those who have no male or father figure growing up, by my experience, become adults with no groin all hernia, and no spinal fusion, until they get in a jamb on their own with out Dads help. It is fascinating to see how the surroundings shapes the relationships.
Our parents shape and color the lens through which we see and organize meaning about other human interactions.